Why Trust, Not Funnels, Closes Enterprise Deals (B2B Sales Guide)
Most startups think closing big deals is about marketing funnels and lead gen. But enterprise buyers don’t follow a script. They follow trust.
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Why B2B funnels don’t work for enterprise sales
Your VP of Sales is about to hate this post.
Because that beautiful pipeline model they presented last week is pure fiction.
Here's what enterprise deals actually look like in the wild. Wynter surveyed enterprise buyers. Yes, those slow-moving giants with deep pockets and the results prove what most startups don’t want to admit:
Your sales funnel is a fairytale 🚨
A bedtime story you tell your board.
Enterprise buyers are stalking you like suspicious in-laws, reading every blog post you've ever written while ghosting your SDRs' carefully crafted follow-ups.
You know that prospect who just "came out of nowhere" ready to sign? They've been watching you for 8 months. Your VP of Sales just doesn't want to admit the $50K ABM campaign had nothing to do with it.
Forget lead magnets. If they don’t trust you, they’re never buying.
According to Wynter here’s what the data says:
100% of enterprise buyers visit your website before making a decision.
84% want a live demo before buying.
54% engage with company content, but only 27% care about executive posts.
23% still want in-person meetings before signing a contract.
This isn’t a funnel.
It’s a maze of internal approvals, silent research, and trust-building moments that happen long before you ever get on a call.
And if you’re still optimising for “lead generation” instead of trust-building, you’re playing the wrong game.
This week, I cover:
✅ Why the B2B funnel is broken for startups selling to enterprise
✅ The four trust-building moments that actually move deals
✅ Why website visits (100%) and live demos (84%) matter more than your ads
✅ How to engineer trust collisions instead of chasing leads
✅ What the best startups do differently to close enterprise deals faster
Why multi-touch attribution fails in enterprise sales
Let's talk about attribution.
The biggest lie in B2B since "the cheque is in the mail."
Your marketing team's multi-touch attribution model is basically astrology for SaaS companies. Unlike in B2C, where impulse purchases happen in minutes, enterprise buyers take months. Sometimes years to build conviction.
Enterprise buyers move sideways, backward, and in loops.
A mid-level manager finds your company on LinkedIn.
Three months later, their VP reads a blog post.
Another three months pass before they finally book a demo.
If you’re tracking only last-touch attribution, you’re missing all the trust-building moments that actually close deals.
The best B2B startups don’t just “generate leads.”
They engineer trust collisions and spontaneous moments where buyers see, hear, or experience something that makes them say:
"Wait… these guys actually seem legit."
Wynter’s research highlights four critical trust-building moments.
1. Your website is the #1 trust signal for B2B buyers
Your website isn't just another landing page to A/B test to death. It's where enterprise buyers go to decide if you're a real company or three developers in a WeWork.
Every. Single. Buyer. Checks. It.
Yes, that includes the CTO who swears they only care about API docs.
So why are so many startup websites actively repelling customers?
No credibility signals. (Where’s the proof that you’re not a three-person team in a WeWork?)
No clear ICP fit. (Are you for mid-market teams? Fortune 500? Who the hell is this for?)
Overcomplicated messaging. ("Revolutionising AI-powered synergies for scalable business ecosystems.")
Enterprise buyers aren’t impulse shopping. They’re evaluating risk.
Your website should answer three simple questions within five seconds:
What problem do you solve?
Who do you solve it for?
Why should they trust you?
If your site makes them think too hard, they’re gone.
2. Why 84% of enterprise buyers want a live demo before buying
Remember when everyone said enterprise software was going "fully self-serve"?
Yeah, about that...
84% of enterprise buyers still want to see a human demo your product. Not your slick product tour. Not your Loom video. An actual human being who can answer "how does this not blow up our entire workflow?" without sweating.
Turns out buyers dropping six figures want more reassurance than your automated Calendly link.
Shocking, I know.
Why? Because buying enterprise software is a career-risking decision.
Nobody wants to be the person who championed a new tool, only for it to break and make them look stupid in front of their boss.
Your demo isn’t a sales pitch. It’s a key trust-building moment.
The best founders use demos to:
✅ De-risk the decision for the buyer
✅ Address objections before they become blockers
✅ Show how your product fits into their actual workflow
If your demos feel like scripted walkthroughs, you’re doing it wrong.
3. What type of content actually influences enterprise buyers?
Bad news for founders spending their Sundays crafting LinkedIn manifestos about "hustle culture" - your enterprise buyers couldn't care less.
The data's brutal:
\54% engage with company content, yet only 27% care about executive posts.
But when done right, founder-led marketing can still be a powerful driver in B2B sales, as I’ve broken down in this deep dive on how it actually works.
So what does this mean?
The blog posts, whitepapers, and in-depth guides you aren’t prioritising are actually doing the heavy lifting.
Your enterprise buyer doesn't need another hot take on AI. They need evidence you won't crater their Q4 numbers.
They’re looking for:
Case studies with companies like theirs (No, not Fortune 500 if you're targeting Series B startups.)
Product deep-dives that answer technical objections
Industry insights that help them win internal buy-in
The right content isn’t about “going viral.”
It’s about arming your champion with everything they need to fight for your product.
Because the real battle is getting past procurement and security reviews.
4. IRL meetings are a trust dhortcut (23%)
23% of enterprise buyers still want to see your actual face before wiring you six figures.
I know… how dare they expect human interaction in 2025?
Your Zoom background of the Golden Gate Bridge isn't fooling anyone. Neither is that "we're totally crushing it" pitch deck you sent. They want to look you in the eye and decide if you'll actually pick up the phone at 2am when their system breaks.
Why?
Because nobody wants to commit six figures to a vendor they’ve never met.
A handshake builds trust 10x faster than an email thread.
Enterprise buyers remember the people they’ve met.
Deals move faster when they feel like real relationships, not transactions.
The best enterprise sales teams prioritise IRL trust-building:
✅ Hosting VIP dinners instead of blasting cold emails
✅ Attending targeted industry events, not just sponsoring booths
✅ Getting face time with key decision-makers before they enter the buying process
The startups that show up in real life win deals faster. Period.
How to build a trust Network that closes more B2B beals
Here's what actually closes enterprise deals:
That VP who used to work with your head of engineering
The Slack back-channel where your champion asks the real questions
The time your CEO personally fixed a bug at midnight
Three months of procurement hell that tested everyone's will to live
Not exactly the clean funnel your board wants to see, is it?
The best B2B startups don’t chase leads.
They manufacture trust at scale.
Your website builds credibility.
Your demos build relationships.
Your content arms champions inside the company.
Your in-person meetings accelerate deals.
Enterprise buyers convert because they’ve seen your name enough times, in enough places, with enough credibility.
Final thoughts
Look, if you're selling $10/month productivity apps, sure, run your funnel.
But if you're trying to convince a Fortune 500 to bet their infrastructure on your startup? Stop pretending this is a nice, linear process.
It's messy and super chaotic. And yes it’s also very human.
Your job is survive long enough to earn trust.
Until next week —> keep growing, no fairytales required.
Martin
P.S. This week’s soundtrack: "Fake Empire" by The National.
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Good insight 😌 Can i translate part of this article into Spanish with links to you and a description of your newsletter?
Thanks Martin, this article really got me thinking and came at the right time. I am in the process of revamping all our funnels and it has given me some good thoughts on how to redesign the customer journey for larger customers.